Shekels paid to FHC

By now you should have received your 2005-2006 invoices from FHC. I certainly did. I must say, it is not economical to be an active Jewish member family of FHC. If you add up the full dues for a family, the bat mitzvah fee, the hebrew high school dues, the school dues for my youngest, the Men's club dues and Sisterhood dues, not to mention all the additional monies paid throughout the year, it amounts to significant shekels.

But should one put a price to the value of being part of the larger Jewish family of Northern Westchester? Is there a cost-benefit analysis that one should do before deciding to be a member at FHC, or for that matter any other congregation? Should one consider whether it is more valuable to invest that money in the stock market, home improvements, or even dinners and movies out? Are these valid comparisons?

Or, do we evaluate what we "get out" of FHC and decide whether or not FHC is worth the costs incurred?

Or, as I suggest, assuming one can afford it, do we consider the shekels expended to be part of an investment in the continuity of the Jewish people and the continuation of Jewish rituals and observance?

I would prefer to think of the shekels paid as my personal investment in the future and survival of Judaism. In addition to my time, energy and committment to Judaism, and the raising of Jewish children, the shekels paid to FHC help to keep the lights burning, the teachers teaching and the Rabbi leading services. The shekels paid to FHC are a statement of hope in the future of our Jewish community.

Years ago, I watched as a Reform congregation in the Bronx closed its doors and sold its building to another religion's congregation. It was heartbreaking to witness the death of the congregation and the loss of that community. I felt that the Bronx congregation was yet another "set of doorposts" that would no longer welcome the newborn, the elderly, the bar/bat mitzvah, and the couples to be married into its warm and welcoming arms.

FHC is a welcoming "set of doorposts" that serve our Jewish community. With your support, and yes, your shekels, the FHC doorposts will continue to serve its vital role in our community.

Shalom. Jeremy